"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
workout, before breakfast, before dinner, or before bedtime?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
In response,
Do your workouts after breakfast in the morning. Your body will be physically at its peak at this time(well rested from sleep, well fed from breakfast, no strain from the day yet). This means you'll be able to put more effort into each workout, in turn building more muscle.
Here's afew tips to get you on track:
1. For the first week, do the 20 reps of each exercise, just to get you in the right mode.
2. After that, your workout will actually start: every day thereafter, push yourself until you absolutely CAN'T do another repetition of any of your exercises.
3. Get a journal and document your improvements each day. It's a big motivation boost to see the reps &/or weight of each exercise go up.
4. Buy some Whey protein, and take the recommended dose(on the box), immediately after each workout.
If this is your first time doing this stuff, you'll see/feel some big changes in the first week or 2, but after that you might level off. This is because you need to keep increasing weight on the dumbbells, etc. to see big changes.
Whatever, solid choice to start working out, it'll feel great
