"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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obviously your not having as much fun anymore, so why fight it only makes it worst. Honestly, if someone cares for you, they always have time for you, even if they work 80 hours a week, if they become distant, thats a problem, most likely its you, but you need to give them time to figure it out for themselves. Asking them whats wrong and wanting a straight answer on what YOU SHOULD DO is never a good idea. If she treats you bad...WALK AWAY! Your in a relationship to be HAPPY! When your no longer happy whats left? I know your trying to get to where your relationship "used to be" when you couldnt get enough of one another, but sh!t happens.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Julius_Seizeher said:
But there's never a smaller penis...than yours. Why else would you so doubt your ability to get any other women?

You are a sh!theel.

you would know
 

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teddy240 said:
obviously your not having as much fun anymore, so why fight it only makes it worst. Honestly, if someone cares for you, they always have time for you, even if they work 80 hours a week, if they become distant, thats a problem, most likely its you, but you need to give them time to figure it out for themselves. Asking them whats wrong and wanting a straight answer on what YOU SHOULD DO is never a good idea. If she treats you bad...WALK AWAY! Your in a relationship to be HAPPY! When your no longer happy whats left? I know your trying to get to where your relationship "used to be" when you couldnt get enough of one another, but sh!t happens.

yeah. Things have changed though. So far things are good. We haven't been arguing. Going to keep my guard up at all times from now on...for a while at least.
 

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Julius, then you would also know that there's bigger penis out there. go get it
 

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things have been working out thus far. Advice helped. thanks for all your advice.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Julius_Seizeher said:
This thread is all about treating symptoms over the disease.

OP needs some serious anti-AFC Therapy.
It's amazing looking back at how right you were, but still, you're a rude one.
 
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