obviously your not having as much fun anymore, so why fight it only makes it worst. Honestly, if someone cares for you, they always have time for you, even if they work 80 hours a week, if they become distant, thats a problem, most likely its you, but you need to give them time to figure it out for themselves. Asking them whats wrong and wanting a straight answer on what YOU SHOULD DO is never a good idea. If she treats you bad...WALK AWAY! Your in a relationship to be HAPPY! When your no longer happy whats left? I know your trying to get to where your relationship "used to be" when you couldnt get enough of one another, but sh!t happens.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
working things out with exgf/gf thread
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