obviously your not having as much fun anymore, so why fight it only makes it worst. Honestly, if someone cares for you, they always have time for you, even if they work 80 hours a week, if they become distant, thats a problem, most likely its you, but you need to give them time to figure it out for themselves. Asking them whats wrong and wanting a straight answer on what YOU SHOULD DO is never a good idea. If she treats you bad...WALK AWAY! Your in a relationship to be HAPPY! When your no longer happy whats left? I know your trying to get to where your relationship "used to be" when you couldnt get enough of one another, but sh!t happens.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
working things out with exgf/gf thread
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