obviously your not having as much fun anymore, so why fight it only makes it worst. Honestly, if someone cares for you, they always have time for you, even if they work 80 hours a week, if they become distant, thats a problem, most likely its you, but you need to give them time to figure it out for themselves. Asking them whats wrong and wanting a straight answer on what YOU SHOULD DO is never a good idea. If she treats you bad...WALK AWAY! Your in a relationship to be HAPPY! When your no longer happy whats left? I know your trying to get to where your relationship "used to be" when you couldnt get enough of one another, but sh!t happens.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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