"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Almost 8 months working out. Packed on 15 pounds am 180 5'10. Have being bulking this whole time.

You could notice that I am getting big/muscular. Also wen't to my old style. Wearing Jordans, hats, Jordan gear/clothing.

But I notice a huge diference in my confidence wen I started working out. I feel great, more confident, not shy to aproach, I walk feeling like a Juggernaut like nothing could stop me.

I take the bus to the gym, and this past week I got aproach 2 times, and other stuff in between. :D

First girl was black, cute chick gave her a 7, she started off with, so watts your name?(she's 17)

Second chick - She ask me ''is it to hot in here or is it just me?(she's 19)

Third chick - She smiled and i said hi, we hit it off from there.(18

Fourth chick - As soon as I came in the bus she couldnt take her eyes off me so i sat by her and started talking to her.(19

Does working out really have such a huge impact?

Notice how they are all under 20 :( lol.. and im 25, funny how all of them asked me how old i was.. but man i feel good :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dude next time you will be working out is taking up the coolie in prison after boning those young underage girls!!! kidding have fun and check IDs while your at it. :)
 

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sicsec said:
dude next time you will be working out is taking up the coolie in prison after boning those young underage girls!!! kidding have fun and check IDs while your at it. :)
ID checking haha.. good idea never did i thougth of that.
 

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sicsec said:
dude next time you will be working out is taking up the coolie in prison after boning those young underage girls!!! kidding have fun and check IDs while your at it. :)
only one out of those four is an issue , and she gave him a compliment that's all he was mentioning to us.

and this is why i like to go to clubs where they don't let those under 18 inside
 

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cablecow15 said:
only one out of those four is an issue , and she gave him a compliment that's all he was mentioning to us.

and this is why i like to go to clubs where they don't let those under 18 inside
haha man i didnt even bother getting her number.. wen she told me her age i drifted away slowly from the convo.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Heck yea! Working out works wonders. I can attest to that. I gained 20lbs over the summer and started to attract a whole new level of women. I highly reccomend it.
 

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Jair213 said:
haha man i didnt even bother getting her number.. wen she told me her age i drifted away slowly from the convo.
lol the same happens for me when i see a girl eyeing me , then she smiles and has braces ...... im like ehhhh

and im getting a gym membership as soon as I can get the money saved up the the "sign up fee"
 
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