"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jair213

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Almost 8 months working out. Packed on 15 pounds am 180 5'10. Have being bulking this whole time.

You could notice that I am getting big/muscular. Also wen't to my old style. Wearing Jordans, hats, Jordan gear/clothing.

But I notice a huge diference in my confidence wen I started working out. I feel great, more confident, not shy to aproach, I walk feeling like a Juggernaut like nothing could stop me.

I take the bus to the gym, and this past week I got aproach 2 times, and other stuff in between. :D

First girl was black, cute chick gave her a 7, she started off with, so watts your name?(she's 17)

Second chick - She ask me ''is it to hot in here or is it just me?(she's 19)

Third chick - She smiled and i said hi, we hit it off from there.(18

Fourth chick - As soon as I came in the bus she couldnt take her eyes off me so i sat by her and started talking to her.(19

Does working out really have such a huge impact?

Notice how they are all under 20 :( lol.. and im 25, funny how all of them asked me how old i was.. but man i feel good :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dude next time you will be working out is taking up the coolie in prison after boning those young underage girls!!! kidding have fun and check IDs while your at it. :)
 

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sicsec said:
dude next time you will be working out is taking up the coolie in prison after boning those young underage girls!!! kidding have fun and check IDs while your at it. :)
ID checking haha.. good idea never did i thougth of that.
 

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sicsec said:
dude next time you will be working out is taking up the coolie in prison after boning those young underage girls!!! kidding have fun and check IDs while your at it. :)
only one out of those four is an issue , and she gave him a compliment that's all he was mentioning to us.

and this is why i like to go to clubs where they don't let those under 18 inside
 

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cablecow15 said:
only one out of those four is an issue , and she gave him a compliment that's all he was mentioning to us.

and this is why i like to go to clubs where they don't let those under 18 inside
haha man i didnt even bother getting her number.. wen she told me her age i drifted away slowly from the convo.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Heck yea! Working out works wonders. I can attest to that. I gained 20lbs over the summer and started to attract a whole new level of women. I highly reccomend it.
 

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Jair213 said:
haha man i didnt even bother getting her number.. wen she told me her age i drifted away slowly from the convo.
lol the same happens for me when i see a girl eyeing me , then she smiles and has braces ...... im like ehhhh

and im getting a gym membership as soon as I can get the money saved up the the "sign up fee"
 
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