"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Almost 8 months working out. Packed on 15 pounds am 180 5'10. Have being bulking this whole time.

You could notice that I am getting big/muscular. Also wen't to my old style. Wearing Jordans, hats, Jordan gear/clothing.

But I notice a huge diference in my confidence wen I started working out. I feel great, more confident, not shy to aproach, I walk feeling like a Juggernaut like nothing could stop me.

I take the bus to the gym, and this past week I got aproach 2 times, and other stuff in between. :D

First girl was black, cute chick gave her a 7, she started off with, so watts your name?(she's 17)

Second chick - She ask me ''is it to hot in here or is it just me?(she's 19)

Third chick - She smiled and i said hi, we hit it off from there.(18

Fourth chick - As soon as I came in the bus she couldnt take her eyes off me so i sat by her and started talking to her.(19

Does working out really have such a huge impact?

Notice how they are all under 20 :( lol.. and im 25, funny how all of them asked me how old i was.. but man i feel good :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dude next time you will be working out is taking up the coolie in prison after boning those young underage girls!!! kidding have fun and check IDs while your at it. :)
 
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sicsec said:
dude next time you will be working out is taking up the coolie in prison after boning those young underage girls!!! kidding have fun and check IDs while your at it. :)
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ID checking haha.. good idea never did i thougth of that.
 
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sicsec said:
dude next time you will be working out is taking up the coolie in prison after boning those young underage girls!!! kidding have fun and check IDs while your at it. :)
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only one out of those four is an issue , and she gave him a compliment that's all he was mentioning to us.

and this is why i like to go to clubs where they don't let those under 18 inside
 
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only one out of those four is an issue , and she gave him a compliment that's all he was mentioning to us.

and this is why i like to go to clubs where they don't let those under 18 inside
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haha man i didnt even bother getting her number.. wen she told me her age i drifted away slowly from the convo.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Heck yea! Working out works wonders. I can attest to that. I gained 20lbs over the summer and started to attract a whole new level of women. I highly reccomend it.
 
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Jair213 said:
haha man i didnt even bother getting her number.. wen she told me her age i drifted away slowly from the convo.
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lol the same happens for me when i see a girl eyeing me , then she smiles and has braces ...... im like ehhhh

and im getting a gym membership as soon as I can get the money saved up the the "sign up fee"
 
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