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working in night clubs and bars and picking up women??

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i recently got a job working in one of the more popular bars in my city and have found that while im working i get many girls approaching me, asking for my # or giving me theirs,I get at least 2 or 3 #'s per night from girls just coming up to me. telling me im hot etc... do you guys think this is due to the job, or being around drunk women having fun? also it seems that about 60 to 70% of the girls are overweight that approach me, is it more common for big girls to approach guys?
 

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just because you work there. all girls love having a friend in a bar for a variety of reasons


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agreed.

its possible half those girls will flake once they sober up and get back to their husband/boyfriend. or they just want to use your call as an ego boost.

ive worked in bars for a couple years, and i can say that when those girls are drunk and horny like that, decent looks and a bit of game will score you easy ass. take it (or leave it) for what its worth and have fun.

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i think its kinda a power role to..I mean you are there and have a seperate identity then the clubbers...kinda unattainable in a way...I am attracted to some of the HB's that work at a club I go to- but if they weren't working there I wouldn't give them so much thought.....getting a job at a club...awesome.
 

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i thot u were the man till u said...

Originally posted by #1Wildcat
also it seems that about 60 to 70% of the girls are overweight that approach me, is it more common for big girls to approach guys?
lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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#1Wildcat

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well theres always the other 30% that are hot lol
but i can always get the big ones to buy me drinks :D
 

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They just wanna get in for free..........oh yeah, and its easy azz:)
 
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