i recently got a job working in one of the more popular bars in my city and have found that while im working i get many girls approaching me, asking for my # or giving me theirs,I get at least 2 or 3 #'s per night from girls just coming up to me. telling me im hot etc... do you guys think this is due to the job, or being around drunk women having fun? also it seems that about 60 to 70% of the girls are overweight that approach me, is it more common for big girls to approach guys?
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working in night clubs and bars and picking up women??
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agreed.
its possible half those girls will flake once they sober up and get back to their husband/boyfriend. or they just want to use your call as an ego boost.
ive worked in bars for a couple years, and i can say that when those girls are drunk and horny like that, decent looks and a bit of game will score you easy ass. take it (or leave it) for what its worth and have fun.
-SLB
its possible half those girls will flake once they sober up and get back to their husband/boyfriend. or they just want to use your call as an ego boost.
ive worked in bars for a couple years, and i can say that when those girls are drunk and horny like that, decent looks and a bit of game will score you easy ass. take it (or leave it) for what its worth and have fun.
-SLB
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i think its kinda a power role to..I mean you are there and have a seperate identity then the clubbers...kinda unattainable in a way...I am attracted to some of the HB's that work at a club I go to- but if they weren't working there I wouldn't give them so much thought.....getting a job at a club...awesome.
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i thot u were the man till u said...
lol
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the fatties sure are bold.
