i recently got a job working in one of the more popular bars in my city and have found that while im working i get many girls approaching me, asking for my # or giving me theirs,I get at least 2 or 3 #'s per night from girls just coming up to me. telling me im hot etc... do you guys think this is due to the job, or being around drunk women having fun? also it seems that about 60 to 70% of the girls are overweight that approach me, is it more common for big girls to approach guys?
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
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working in night clubs and bars and picking up women??
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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agreed.
its possible half those girls will flake once they sober up and get back to their husband/boyfriend. or they just want to use your call as an ego boost.
ive worked in bars for a couple years, and i can say that when those girls are drunk and horny like that, decent looks and a bit of game will score you easy ass. take it (or leave it) for what its worth and have fun.
-SLB
its possible half those girls will flake once they sober up and get back to their husband/boyfriend. or they just want to use your call as an ego boost.
ive worked in bars for a couple years, and i can say that when those girls are drunk and horny like that, decent looks and a bit of game will score you easy ass. take it (or leave it) for what its worth and have fun.
-SLB
RiceHapa888
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i think its kinda a power role to..I mean you are there and have a seperate identity then the clubbers...kinda unattainable in a way...I am attracted to some of the HB's that work at a club I go to- but if they weren't working there I wouldn't give them so much thought.....getting a job at a club...awesome.
Chilli_pimp
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i thot u were the man till u said...
lol
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
RiceHapa888
Don Juan
the fatties sure are bold.
