i recently got a job working in one of the more popular bars in my city and have found that while im working i get many girls approaching me, asking for my # or giving me theirs,I get at least 2 or 3 #'s per night from girls just coming up to me. telling me im hot etc... do you guys think this is due to the job, or being around drunk women having fun? also it seems that about 60 to 70% of the girls are overweight that approach me, is it more common for big girls to approach guys?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
working in night clubs and bars and picking up women??
- Thread starter #1Wildcat
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
strong like bull
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agreed.
its possible half those girls will flake once they sober up and get back to their husband/boyfriend. or they just want to use your call as an ego boost.
ive worked in bars for a couple years, and i can say that when those girls are drunk and horny like that, decent looks and a bit of game will score you easy ass. take it (or leave it) for what its worth and have fun.
-SLB
its possible half those girls will flake once they sober up and get back to their husband/boyfriend. or they just want to use your call as an ego boost.
ive worked in bars for a couple years, and i can say that when those girls are drunk and horny like that, decent looks and a bit of game will score you easy ass. take it (or leave it) for what its worth and have fun.
-SLB
RiceHapa888
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i think its kinda a power role to..I mean you are there and have a seperate identity then the clubbers...kinda unattainable in a way...I am attracted to some of the HB's that work at a club I go to- but if they weren't working there I wouldn't give them so much thought.....getting a job at a club...awesome.
Chilli_pimp
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i thot u were the man till u said...
lol
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
RiceHapa888
Don Juan
the fatties sure are bold.
