"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I had my 90 day evaluation and I received a 78 cent raise. Previously I received a $1 raise within the 2nd week when I first started. My supervisor is real happy. The owner is really happy. The owner wants me to learn everything as fast as possible so he give me a truck and a crew. This is great. But I work hard .
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Being a slave sucks. They keep you poor to demoralize you, so you feel trapped and stay.

If they fail to compensate you for inflation, start looking for other work. The best way to a good raise, is other gigs in the pipeline.

Get rid of some bills. Go with the bare necessities.
 

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Being a slave sucks. They keep you poor to demoralize you, so you feel trapped and stay.

If they fail to compensate you for inflation, start looking for other work. The best way to a good raise, is other gigs in the pipeline.

Get rid of some bills. Go with the bare necessities.
I'm living with the bare necessities now . This Job does have potential if I get a under me. But its hard to get these young kids ages 17 to 25, to last more than Two days .Because they are 85% plusses that can't do hard work.

At the least this is character building at most i can get a crew under me and possibly this will lead to other things.
 

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I'm living with the bare necessities now . This Job does have potential if I get a under me. But its hard to get these young kids ages 17 to 25, to last more than Two days .Because they are 85% plusses that can't do hard work.

At the least this is character building at most i can get a crew under me and possibly this will lead to other things.
Well said. If nothing else, it shows that you are like one of the 15% that is willing to work hard. And you're learning.
 

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Well said. If nothing else, it shows that you are like one of the 15% that is willing to work hard. And you're learning.
Why do you keep repeating these numbers? Obviously you all hate me which, whatever. But why not get over it in trying to improve my life and change my ways. If I could make amends I would do it
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why do you keep repeating these numbers? Obviously you all hate me which, whatever. But why not get over it in trying to improve my life and change my ways. If I could make amends I would do it
? I'm not sure you read my post. I was trying to congratulate you.
You said 85% of the kids wouldn't do hard work. I was saying it was good that you were like one of the 15% who could.
 

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Being a slave sucks.
This^ is exactly what we are at work anymore, slaves to the system.

Gone are the days with a nice and simple "go to work 5 x days, be on time, work hard, have pride in your work, go home, get paid on Friday. "

Now it's "Go to work, do your job, do 3 x people's jobs who are slackers and won't pull weight, do 3 x more people's jobs to account for short staffing to begin with, get blamed for stuff you didn't do or chastised for the tiniest mistake, watch others who didn't do anything get credit for your work when successful, stand up for yourself and get written up for being adversarial, go home with temporary energy loss and a little more of your soul permanently gone"
 
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Being a slave sucks. They keep you poor to demoralize you, so you feel trapped and stay.

If they fail to compensate you for inflation, start looking for other work. The best way to a good raise, is other gigs in the pipeline.

Get rid of some bills. Go with the bare necessities.

"Learn to live on lentils, and you will not have to be subservient to the king."

"I’ve been broke even oftener than I’ve been wealthy. Of the two, being broke is more interesting, as a man who doesn’t know where his next meal is coming from is never bored. He may be angry or several other things—but not bored. His predicament sharpens his thoughts, spurs him into action, adds zest to his life, whether he knows it or not."

"Indeed the state of all who are preoccupied is wretched, but the most wretched are those who are toiling not even at their own preoccupations, but must regulate their sleep by another’s, and their walk by another’s pace, and obey orders in those freest of all things, loving and hating. If such people want to know how short their lives are, let them reflect how small a portion is their own."


I'll be at work on Monday, but I keep these thoughts with me.
 
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I'm convinced that full-time/salary jobs are for married men, men with kids and suckers.

Makes me a sucker.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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If you have to max the credit cards out then buy Bitcoin.... On a spike, sell half and put it into gold. That way, you may have some chance of wealth...

 
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