"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

work out before go out first better or rest then go out?

happy gilmore

Don Juan
Joined
May 26, 2002
Messages
195
Reaction score
1
I want to look bigger, and have more definetion to my muscles before I go out. Is it better to work out right before going out? Will it pump up my muscles and make them look bigger and more cut, or does the muscles need rest to look bigger and that I should rest few days before going out to look bigger?

sorry for my english.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Aiken_Drum

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2001
Messages
1,242
Reaction score
3
Age
43
Location
Buenos Aires, Argentina.
If you work out before you are gonna be flat afterwards... at least, that's for me.
I say, don't worry about it so much, it's not gonna make a difference to have 22" or 21.6" guns or whatever.
Load on creatine a few hours if you wanna look better, but don't stress it so much.
 

oOh Nasty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 23, 2002
Messages
1,126
Reaction score
353
Age
40
he does have a point tho. i like lookin' at myself in the mirror after i work out, and i do look alot bigger than usual. whut if ur going swimming and u'd like to look better with ur shirt off? wouldn't it be better to work out a few minutes before going?
 

The Irish Tongue

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 13, 2002
Messages
184
Reaction score
0
After I work out my muscles only stay engorged with blood for about 20 min and then they go back to normal size. If you're gonna be shirtless at a pool do some push ups in the bathroom before you walk out.

If she isn't going to see your bare skin within 20 min of working out I wouldn't worry about it.
 
Top