Work at a local basketball arena revolving door of people quitting and getting hired don't really need the job but enjoy sports and a great way to meet girls horrible managers do I exit without giving two weeks or stick it out since I don't really need the money!Or wait to be fired?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Id say keep the job, it’s a great way to socialize and stay active within your community. The more we get older sometimes as Bachelors, the more isolated we become sometimes. That’s why things like volunteering, going to church, being cool with your co workers and keeping your relationships with your family stress free are important factors to maintain as you get older. That job seems like a good way to get your social muscles sharp.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Give two weeks. No reason not to.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I worked at the Tampa hockey stadium in college. It was worth it for the concerts. I also learned the word "vomitorium."
I also volunteer now more than ever.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Hi Eli,
Seems you work for a pack of mongrels....As a youngster working as a Builders Labourer I was sacked on Christmas Eve so the Boss could avoid paying the three Days Statutory Holidays over Christmas,so I feel for you...@Bible Belt is a Latin scholar he will translate "Illigitimi non Carborundum"which is my advice to you!
Seems you work for a pack of mongrels....As a youngster working as a Builders Labourer I was sacked on Christmas Eve so the Boss could avoid paying the three Days Statutory Holidays over Christmas,so I feel for you...@Bible Belt is a Latin scholar he will translate "Illigitimi non Carborundum"which is my advice to you!
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Illegitimi non carborundum - Wikipedia
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Great point good I take it you worked at one
Well said good point great looking girls just like working at a restaurant a constant revolving door of people not looking to get promoted ill wait to human resources fires me.I believe they are in it for the company not the people
TranslateIllegitimi non carborundum - Wikipedia
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Wise words!
Is that like labour finders?
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Hi Eli,
No not like Labour Finders....Our Building industry was a bit like Steinbecks Fruit picking industry in Grapes Of Wrath...Then the Communists took over and unionised the Labour the boot was on the other foot then and the Servants became Masters in the house,these days they are the tyrants.
No not like Labour Finders....Our Building industry was a bit like Steinbecks Fruit picking industry in Grapes Of Wrath...Then the Communists took over and unionised the Labour the boot was on the other foot then and the Servants became Masters in the house,these days they are the tyrants.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.