Work at a local basketball arena revolving door of people quitting and getting hired don't really need the job but enjoy sports and a great way to meet girls horrible managers do I exit without giving two weeks or stick it out since I don't really need the money!Or wait to be fired?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Id say keep the job, it’s a great way to socialize and stay active within your community. The more we get older sometimes as Bachelors, the more isolated we become sometimes. That’s why things like volunteering, going to church, being cool with your co workers and keeping your relationships with your family stress free are important factors to maintain as you get older. That job seems like a good way to get your social muscles sharp.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Give two weeks. No reason not to.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I worked at the Tampa hockey stadium in college. It was worth it for the concerts. I also learned the word "vomitorium."
I also volunteer now more than ever.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Hi Eli,
Seems you work for a pack of mongrels....As a youngster working as a Builders Labourer I was sacked on Christmas Eve so the Boss could avoid paying the three Days Statutory Holidays over Christmas,so I feel for you...@Bible Belt is a Latin scholar he will translate "Illigitimi non Carborundum"which is my advice to you!
Seems you work for a pack of mongrels....As a youngster working as a Builders Labourer I was sacked on Christmas Eve so the Boss could avoid paying the three Days Statutory Holidays over Christmas,so I feel for you...@Bible Belt is a Latin scholar he will translate "Illigitimi non Carborundum"which is my advice to you!
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Illegitimi non carborundum - Wikipedia
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Great point good I take it you worked at one
Well said good point great looking girls just like working at a restaurant a constant revolving door of people not looking to get promoted ill wait to human resources fires me.I believe they are in it for the company not the people
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Wise words!
Is that like labour finders?
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Hi Eli,
No not like Labour Finders....Our Building industry was a bit like Steinbecks Fruit picking industry in Grapes Of Wrath...Then the Communists took over and unionised the Labour the boot was on the other foot then and the Servants became Masters in the house,these days they are the tyrants.
No not like Labour Finders....Our Building industry was a bit like Steinbecks Fruit picking industry in Grapes Of Wrath...Then the Communists took over and unionised the Labour the boot was on the other foot then and the Servants became Masters in the house,these days they are the tyrants.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.