Work at a local basketball arena revolving door of people quitting and getting hired don't really need the job but enjoy sports and a great way to meet girls horrible managers do I exit without giving two weeks or stick it out since I don't really need the money!Or wait to be fired?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Work issue for those who work in hospitality
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Travel memoir21
Master Don Juan
Id say keep the job, it’s a great way to socialize and stay active within your community. The more we get older sometimes as Bachelors, the more isolated we become sometimes. That’s why things like volunteering, going to church, being cool with your co workers and keeping your relationships with your family stress free are important factors to maintain as you get older. That job seems like a good way to get your social muscles sharp.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Give two weeks. No reason not to.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I worked at the Tampa hockey stadium in college. It was worth it for the concerts. I also learned the word "vomitorium."
I also volunteer now more than ever.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Hi Eli,
Seems you work for a pack of mongrels....As a youngster working as a Builders Labourer I was sacked on Christmas Eve so the Boss could avoid paying the three Days Statutory Holidays over Christmas,so I feel for you...@Bible Belt is a Latin scholar he will translate "Illigitimi non Carborundum"which is my advice to you!
Seems you work for a pack of mongrels....As a youngster working as a Builders Labourer I was sacked on Christmas Eve so the Boss could avoid paying the three Days Statutory Holidays over Christmas,so I feel for you...@Bible Belt is a Latin scholar he will translate "Illigitimi non Carborundum"which is my advice to you!
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Illegitimi non carborundum - Wikipedia
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Great point good I take it you worked at one
Well said good point great looking girls just like working at a restaurant a constant revolving door of people not looking to get promoted ill wait to human resources fires me.I believe they are in it for the company not the people
TranslateIllegitimi non carborundum - Wikipedia
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Wise words!
Is that like labour finders?
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Hi Eli,
No not like Labour Finders....Our Building industry was a bit like Steinbecks Fruit picking industry in Grapes Of Wrath...Then the Communists took over and unionised the Labour the boot was on the other foot then and the Servants became Masters in the house,these days they are the tyrants.
No not like Labour Finders....Our Building industry was a bit like Steinbecks Fruit picking industry in Grapes Of Wrath...Then the Communists took over and unionised the Labour the boot was on the other foot then and the Servants became Masters in the house,these days they are the tyrants.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.