"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I know what your thinking Dont dip the pen in the company ink, But the girl is really cute. Heres the problem, Girl is giving me a lot of KINO, sex talk, EC, etc. But When I finally ask her out she denies, and I think she denies because my coworkers are around and I have a rep for dating a lot of girls and playing them. So, when she denies how should I act? should I freeze her out for like a couple days or should I act like it did not effect me and try again when I isolate her.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She sounds like an attention *****. She does all these great things (e.g., Kino, eye contact, etc.) and when you finally ask her out, she flat-out refuses? You either responded to these actions wrong initially or she's just doing all of this for attention.

Most likely the latter. Best thing to do is to hang out with other female co-workers, talk to them, be seen talking with them, and sort of distance yourself from this girl (remain polite, though). Quit visiting her office/cubicle; quit offering her lunch, etc. Just focus on the other females and work.
 
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Originally posted by psychgrad
I dont do anything nice for her.
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Attention is all they want, whether you're being nice or not.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Does it matter that she lives 40 miles away and I was asking her to go out with me near my house, so on her day off she would have to drive?
 
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