"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I know what your thinking Dont dip the pen in the company ink, But the girl is really cute. Heres the problem, Girl is giving me a lot of KINO, sex talk, EC, etc. But When I finally ask her out she denies, and I think she denies because my coworkers are around and I have a rep for dating a lot of girls and playing them. So, when she denies how should I act? should I freeze her out for like a couple days or should I act like it did not effect me and try again when I isolate her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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She sounds like an attention *****. She does all these great things (e.g., Kino, eye contact, etc.) and when you finally ask her out, she flat-out refuses? You either responded to these actions wrong initially or she's just doing all of this for attention.

Most likely the latter. Best thing to do is to hang out with other female co-workers, talk to them, be seen talking with them, and sort of distance yourself from this girl (remain polite, though). Quit visiting her office/cubicle; quit offering her lunch, etc. Just focus on the other females and work.
 

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Originally posted by psychgrad
I dont do anything nice for her.
Attention is all they want, whether you're being nice or not.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Does it matter that she lives 40 miles away and I was asking her to go out with me near my house, so on her day off she would have to drive?
 
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