Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't know why you very directly implied you were married in your first post, only to clarify much later that it's an open relationship. If that's the case, then your original question is actually reasonable.

But I wouldn't be surprised if you changed your story after getting flamed so hard for it. And you're kind of annoying. So best of luck.
 
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Yewki said:
I don't know why you very directly implied you were married in your first post, only to clarify much later that it's an open relationship. If that's the case, then your original question is actually reasonable.

But I wouldn't be surprised if you changed your story after getting flamed so hard for it. And you're kind of annoying. So best of luck.
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In the uk we say MRS when we refer to girlfriend, wife, fb you name it etc...

Maybe I should of explained that but didn't think it was relevant as I was asking for advice regarding my co-worker not my relationship.

But for everyone who's concerned about it I'm sure she'll be thrilled that you all care so thank you
 
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***update***

So for anyone who's interested I have an update... Thanks to the 2 fantastic guys on here who actually helped and a couple of really fantastic replies on another website I have decided to take the completely unpredictable result.

So early today before we left work I told her than I can't wait for the next 4 days off work due to Easter.. Ive spun this on its head and sent her a msg on fb telling her that I've gone over some of the work we've been doing and
I think we need to spend an hour finalising it.. I told her to meet me for coffee tomorrow at a local Costa and she agreed.

My plan is to arrive 15/20 mins late act a bit pissy because she's ****ed up part of our report and I didn't wanna spend my day off doing this.. Just before I leave and we've finished the work which I expect to take no more than 5 mins I'll initiate some light kino and act super nice to send me mixed msg's and get her thinking about me.

I think getting her out of the work environment may help calm her down making kino easier and giving her the push pull through the time together may get her head spinning.

Like I said earlier this is the most fun I've had in ages so fingers crossed and I'll update you tomorrow.
 
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