"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I don't know why you very directly implied you were married in your first post, only to clarify much later that it's an open relationship. If that's the case, then your original question is actually reasonable.

But I wouldn't be surprised if you changed your story after getting flamed so hard for it. And you're kind of annoying. So best of luck.
 

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I don't know why you very directly implied you were married in your first post, only to clarify much later that it's an open relationship. If that's the case, then your original question is actually reasonable.

But I wouldn't be surprised if you changed your story after getting flamed so hard for it. And you're kind of annoying. So best of luck.

In the uk we say MRS when we refer to girlfriend, wife, fb you name it etc...

Maybe I should of explained that but didn't think it was relevant as I was asking for advice regarding my co-worker not my relationship.

But for everyone who's concerned about it I'm sure she'll be thrilled that you all care so thank you
 

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***update***

So for anyone who's interested I have an update... Thanks to the 2 fantastic guys on here who actually helped and a couple of really fantastic replies on another website I have decided to take the completely unpredictable result.

So early today before we left work I told her than I can't wait for the next 4 days off work due to Easter.. Ive spun this on its head and sent her a msg on fb telling her that I've gone over some of the work we've been doing and
I think we need to spend an hour finalising it.. I told her to meet me for coffee tomorrow at a local Costa and she agreed.

My plan is to arrive 15/20 mins late act a bit pissy because she's ****ed up part of our report and I didn't wanna spend my day off doing this.. Just before I leave and we've finished the work which I expect to take no more than 5 mins I'll initiate some light kino and act super nice to send me mixed msg's and get her thinking about me.

I think getting her out of the work environment may help calm her down making kino easier and giving her the push pull through the time together may get her head spinning.

Like I said earlier this is the most fun I've had in ages so fingers crossed and I'll update you tomorrow.
 
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