"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Work colleague

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yewki

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I don't know why you very directly implied you were married in your first post, only to clarify much later that it's an open relationship. If that's the case, then your original question is actually reasonable.

But I wouldn't be surprised if you changed your story after getting flamed so hard for it. And you're kind of annoying. So best of luck.
 

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I don't know why you very directly implied you were married in your first post, only to clarify much later that it's an open relationship. If that's the case, then your original question is actually reasonable.

But I wouldn't be surprised if you changed your story after getting flamed so hard for it. And you're kind of annoying. So best of luck.

In the uk we say MRS when we refer to girlfriend, wife, fb you name it etc...

Maybe I should of explained that but didn't think it was relevant as I was asking for advice regarding my co-worker not my relationship.

But for everyone who's concerned about it I'm sure she'll be thrilled that you all care so thank you
 

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***update***

So for anyone who's interested I have an update... Thanks to the 2 fantastic guys on here who actually helped and a couple of really fantastic replies on another website I have decided to take the completely unpredictable result.

So early today before we left work I told her than I can't wait for the next 4 days off work due to Easter.. Ive spun this on its head and sent her a msg on fb telling her that I've gone over some of the work we've been doing and
I think we need to spend an hour finalising it.. I told her to meet me for coffee tomorrow at a local Costa and she agreed.

My plan is to arrive 15/20 mins late act a bit pissy because she's ****ed up part of our report and I didn't wanna spend my day off doing this.. Just before I leave and we've finished the work which I expect to take no more than 5 mins I'll initiate some light kino and act super nice to send me mixed msg's and get her thinking about me.

I think getting her out of the work environment may help calm her down making kino easier and giving her the push pull through the time together may get her head spinning.

Like I said earlier this is the most fun I've had in ages so fingers crossed and I'll update you tomorrow.
 
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