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You think?
It's certainly quite forward in the sense that we've never met in person and I have no idea what she looks like...
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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Has she ever seen you in person? Does she know someone that works with you or knows you? This sounds like one of those things where she knows someone who gave you a good review to her and now she is interested in finding out more...
Neither of us have seen other.
Just go have fun and don't get your expectations too high.
Well I have a day off on the 15th, so I could let her know.
Commit to the trip, but a bit more time to study her energy properly. She obviously likes your vibe if she has invited you. However, she may have invited others also to make it a group outing of friends. If you count your chicks too soon you may be disappointed. She may be seeing you as a friend at this point, so play it safe and mentally prepare yourself for a friendly outing. If things turn out to be steamy later on then thats a bonus. But for now, dont raise your hopes too high and potentially misread the tide
Agreed...she may have invited a whole bunch of coworkers so this might not be a one on one thing. I'd just ask her "So how many of us are going to be hiking?"
Tell her "let's meet for a drink after work and talk about it". If she looks like a Hippopotamus or avoids coming within 1 meter of you, then tell her no. Also tell her no if she brings along a bunch of kochblockers or mentions a boyfriend.
