"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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work and women (not about dating at work)

Heretolearn

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Gentlemen,

What are your thoughts/experiences/tips on how work affects you? I have been working long stressful hours lately and although my libido/interest seems high, I have very little tolerance/energy to go out.

I am happy how work is proceeding though. Have you guys managed a balance or do you work hard/play later?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Victory Unlimited

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Mental, physical, and emotional energy are not items that are in limitless supply. So you should let your current priorities dictate where you apply your energy, how often you apply your energy, and how MUCH energy you need to apply to women OR work.

The company of women should be either be an energy booster to you or they should be a stress-relief valve to you. The best case scenario would be if they were BOTH. But a good rule of thumb to know when your women/work ratio is out of balance is when you DREAD the thought of one over the other.

Hope this helps.

V.U.
 

Heretolearn

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Victory Unlimited said:
Mental, physical, and emotional energy are not items that are in limitless supply. So you should let your current priorities dictate where you apply your energy, how often you apply your energy, and how MUCH energy you need to apply to women OR work.

The company of women should be either be an energy booster to you or they should be a stress-relief valve to you. The best case scenario would be if they were BOTH. But a good rule of thumb to know when your women/work ratio is out of balance is when you DREAD the thought of one over the other.

Hope this helps.

V.U.
solid tip, thank you
 
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