"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Woot! First date!

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Woot! I used the text message game to organize a date with this girl I met a few nights ago.

We're having coffee and shes "helping me get gifts for my sisters/cousins" lol

Any advice?

It seriously like my first real date ever. :rock:
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Also, I am aiming for kiss. How can I play that in this scenario?

When i first see her, i plan to do cheek kiss, what else can I do to lead up to kiss?
 
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Coffee plus xmas shopping is a nice simple first date idea. Kudos.

Some simple guidelines:
- Be yourself but show your funny side, make her laugh and make sure she enjoys your company.
- Plenty of kino (touching, hugging, etc) whenever the opportunity presents itself. (Cheek kiss is a great start)
- If you two get on at all well, it is essential that you kiss her before the date ends. She will be expecting it (and will be insulted if you don't - trust me on this). Your job is to pluck up the courage to move in. It doesn't matter how, where or when. Just do it. If she likes you, she will kiss you back gratefully. If she resists, it's because she's just not into you.
 
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Dude thanks for psyching me up! lol


Could we just sit down somewhere like on a park bench, put my arm around her, then after a bit, kiss?
 
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spax said:
Dude thanks for psyching me up! lol


Could we just sit down somewhere like on a park bench, put my arm around her, then after a bit, kiss?
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Hate to be the bearer of bad news, but don't expect anything, because you will probably get disapointed.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DON'T kiss her on the first date!

Take that pressure off yourself completely, its your first ever date with a girl and you REALLY, REALLY don't need it.

Simply concentrate on having a fun time, keep the conversation light and make her giggle.

'IF' shes interested she won't be put off that you didn't kiss her.

I have this vision of you trying so hard to see an opportunity to kiss her that you'll come across as completely nervous and awkward.

Relax, have fun and let things happen naturally.
 
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