Women's Test

[The Professor]

What **** test have women given you and how did you respond ?

 

[Glassguy]

I typically ignore them. My time is too valuable to be "proving myself" and being worried about passing her shyte tests.

She should be more concerned about proving to me why I should see her again after the first date.

Hope that helps.

 

[Serenity]

I recommend guys to not focus on sh!t tests or even think about it. I've probably been sh!t tested, but I doesn't really register it as that. If you keep to your frame you won't have to worry about the details of navigating sh!t tests.

If you get hung up on the fact that she's sh!t testing, then you will alter your behavior, break your own frame and most likely fail.

 

[Prettyboy Dee]

I'm oblivious to them, dont even notice them because I dont give a sh!t about them.

 

[Medina]

There are different types imo jealousy games and negging are different because they can actually be a sign of very high interest

A true **** test is when a woman texts you about cancellation or starts p!ssing you around to see how much of a trained dog you are. This scenario actually matters and can make or break you depending on your pass or fail

 

[BeExcellent]

Advice from the old lady:

Just lead and do your thing as a man. Don’t analyze everything to death. Sometimes women are hormonal, sometimes in an insecure mood, sometimes emotionally charged. You cannot go about second guessing everything from a contrived paradigm such as a shjt test.

Who has time for all that? Just move forward and observe her actions over time. If her actions are generally good? That’s good. She has high interest and desire. If her actions are generally bitchy or sour that’s not good, no matter what she looks like.

Retain people in your life who are generally supportive, positive and pleasant. Eject people who aren’t. Some feistiness can be a positive thing as it can challenge you to grow and improve...not to mention it can keep sexual tension high...but positive qualities should outweigh negative and you want someone with a giving heart.

 

[tony.shai]

What do you guys mean by jealousy tests? Like let's say you're at a party, a girl knows you're interested, but she seems to brag about someone texting her, would that be "jealousy" test as in she's trying to see how you react to that or you mean something else?

 

[Bandolero]

What do you guys mean by jealousy tests? Like let's say you're at a party, a girl knows you're interested, but she seems to brag about someone texting her, would that be "jealousy" test as in she's trying to see how you react to that or you mean something else?

Might be. But that's straight disrespect. If you would do the same thing, she would be gone.On the other part, If she would see you flirting with other females it would benefit you.

 

[Georgepithyou]

I just let then know that I don't have the time for childish games, block her then move on

 

[BadBoy89]

I can‘t believe what I’m reading. Ignore them? If a girl comes at me with a test, I will hit back 2x harder. I will literally make her cry.

Would a King accept any type of test from his concubines? Would Prince accept any type of test from his mistresses? No way. Any girl has to know she cannot mess with you. Otherwise it’s a free for all until she loses all respect for the man.

First sign of a test, CRUSH IT so she doesn’t dare think about doing it again.

Come on men, be strong.

 

[tony.shai]

Might be. But that's straight disrespect. If you would do the same thing, she would be gone.On the other part, If she would see you flirting with other females it would benefit you.

Well that same girl literally moved so that I can see her ass in front of my eyes and checked if I'm looking, guess that's even more disrespectful haha.

 

[zekko]

First sign of a test, CRUSH IT so she doesn’t dare think about doing it again.

Do you have an example or two of this?

 

[Roober]

There are no $hit tests.

Every social interaction you have with another person is a game, figuratively speaking of course. It's just a matter of finding out which game they are playing, deciding if it is a game worth entertaining, learning to play it better, then figuring out if they play by the rules (societal, legal, and your own)

 

[Hal9000]

Was seeing a girl about an hour away, usually on the weekends. One time she asked me to drive my SUV so I could haul some stuff for her. I didn't commit and then drove my sports car (which was what I had originally planned to drive that weekend). When I got there she said she thought I was driving the SUV and I said the weather was too nice not to drive the sports car. She didn't say another word about it.

 

[051AV]

I don't put up with sh*t tests, women do it to see how much control they have over you, I can't stand seeing men jump to snapping fingers. I've had women do it to me I just give them a glare, you need to learn the word NO.

 

[andreihaha]

Try not to get hung up on what is and what isn’t a sh*t test. This tends to lead guys into wondering or believing just about everything a woman does is designed to test him, and this can eventually lead a man to respond in a counterproductive way to handle it. He will eventually try to pass tests that may not be tests at all, which only ends up as either supplicating type of behavior (hoping to pass the test) or self sabotage (taking a loss that wasn’t necessary).

I can vouch for that. I did sabotage myself trying to pass some inexistent tests. I was actually denied a second date by a girl I didn't even like. So yeah, I don't care about dumb tests no more.

 

[jaymbrs]

I met a chick through a common friend and during a party we drunkenly made out. A few days later she invites me over for drinks at her place. As I made a move on her, she backed off and told me she wasn't looking for anything like that with me. I picked up and left. I'm pretty sure had I handled that differently I could've banged her, but I never did. I let my ego get the best of me.

 

[Dash Riprock]

I can‘t believe what I’m reading. Ignore them? If a girl comes at me with a test, I will hit back 2x harder. I will literally make her cry.

Would a King accept any type of test from his concubines? Would Prince accept any type of test from his mistresses? No way. Any girl has to know she cannot mess with you. Otherwise it’s a free for all until she loses all respect for the man.

First sign of a test, CRUSH IT so she doesn’t dare think about doing it again.

Come on men, be strong.

You sound a bit too invested that she can/could get a rise out of you like that.

The best response to a s*hit test is an IDGAF attitude, like if a HB3 was trying to make you jealous or take a dig at you. Who the f*uck cares?

Woman: "Damn, your friend Chad is sooooo f*ucking hot. I know a few of my gf's who would love to date him!"
Dash: (watching a game or looking at phone or just deep in thought...) "Oh, I'm sorry did you say something? Chad? Yeah, cool dude. DAMN! Look at this dunk by Giannis!!"

You need to be the judge on s*hit tests--my general guidelines (a few moving parts here, may need to be adjusted per incident based on terms and length of relationship):
1- Harmless/typical girl hormonal or drama-related stuff:, IDGAF, laugh, make a sarcastic joke---DON'T GET UPSET (you'll look weak).
2- Disrespect or Blatant Disrespect: First offense: One warning shot over the bow, Second offense: S&D, Third infraction: Permanent dumping per my Abundance Mentality.

Good luck to you.

~Dash~

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

A woman can bet on more control over you at the risk of your respect for her.

Personally I like the women that bet on blowing me or being sweet to gain my respect. Why even bother with the former when you know this is out there?

@stringpuller your daughter is a child, so it's fine to let it slide for now, but that indirectness you're describing is the other person not knowing how to articulate their feelings. While I can infer things from a girls behavior, I can't read her mind. If she can't articulate her thoughts I shouldn't have to do it for her.

That said, the calmer and sharper I keep myself, the more I can infer.

 

[zinc4]

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I can‘t believe what I’m reading. Ignore them? If a girl comes at me with a test, I will hit back 2x harder. I will literally make her cry.

Would a King accept any type of test from his concubines? Would Prince accept any type of test from his mistresses? No way. Any girl has to know she cannot mess with you. Otherwise it’s a free for all until she loses all respect for the man.

First sign of a test, CRUSH IT so she doesn’t dare think about doing it again.

Come on men, be strong.

Okay, I like this mindset. But how to do this exactly....give an example please. Ignore works as well, but you are right....who the **** dares to question the king? Biatches lol