Guys, I've been more than twice in this situation: date, high IL from her, we make out, we have sex then she FOR WHATEVER REASON screws up and IL drops, I chase a little bit then go NC after not getting results. I'm working on not chasing and not letting IL drop but i think that once she screws the thing, she's done with me. Often after "x" months of NC she tries to reinitiate contact, I think just to throw a bait and get a ego boost. Sometimes however it's really difficult to understand what she wants, she will never tell you. If she comes back wanting what she screwed up, what do you do assuming you're still interested? start fresh as never happened or challenge her past behaviour? honestly, some of them showed really poor behaviour and I would go for "even I could be still interested, i can't forget your behaviour" and next her anyway. Do you think that women can show REAL and HONEST regret?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
women's regret, does it exist?
- Thread starter joker79
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