Guys, I've been more than twice in this situation: date, high IL from her, we make out, we have sex then she FOR WHATEVER REASON screws up and IL drops, I chase a little bit then go NC after not getting results. I'm working on not chasing and not letting IL drop but i think that once she screws the thing, she's done with me. Often after "x" months of NC she tries to reinitiate contact, I think just to throw a bait and get a ego boost. Sometimes however it's really difficult to understand what she wants, she will never tell you. If she comes back wanting what she screwed up, what do you do assuming you're still interested? start fresh as never happened or challenge her past behaviour? honestly, some of them showed really poor behaviour and I would go for "even I could be still interested, i can't forget your behaviour" and next her anyway. Do you think that women can show REAL and HONEST regret?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
women's regret, does it exist?
- Thread starter joker79
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