"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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women's regret, does it exist?

joker79

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Guys, I've been more than twice in this situation: date, high IL from her, we make out, we have sex then she FOR WHATEVER REASON screws up and IL drops, I chase a little bit then go NC after not getting results. I'm working on not chasing and not letting IL drop but i think that once she screws the thing, she's done with me. Often after "x" months of NC she tries to reinitiate contact, I think just to throw a bait and get a ego boost. Sometimes however it's really difficult to understand what she wants, she will never tell you. If she comes back wanting what she screwed up, what do you do assuming you're still interested? start fresh as never happened or challenge her past behaviour? honestly, some of them showed really poor behaviour and I would go for "even I could be still interested, i can't forget your behaviour" and next her anyway. Do you think that women can show REAL and HONEST regret?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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not really, think lack of challenge and too demanding
 
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