Guys, I've been more than twice in this situation: date, high IL from her, we make out, we have sex then she FOR WHATEVER REASON screws up and IL drops, I chase a little bit then go NC after not getting results. I'm working on not chasing and not letting IL drop but i think that once she screws the thing, she's done with me. Often after "x" months of NC she tries to reinitiate contact, I think just to throw a bait and get a ego boost. Sometimes however it's really difficult to understand what she wants, she will never tell you. If she comes back wanting what she screwed up, what do you do assuming you're still interested? start fresh as never happened or challenge her past behaviour? honestly, some of them showed really poor behaviour and I would go for "even I could be still interested, i can't forget your behaviour" and next her anyway. Do you think that women can show REAL and HONEST regret?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
women's regret, does it exist?
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