Womens Past

[Sega Genesis]

Over 2 years before we met, and she didnt tell but I found out which made her cry etc

^^How did you find out? And how did you confront her about it such that it made her cry?

In any event, you can't unring this bell so may be best to go separate ways.

I will say people do make mistakes especially when very young (HS), poor decision-making, lack of boundaries etc, that they may regret and learn from. But again since this apparently troubles you so much, best to call this a day and move on.

It's your call no one else's.

Sorry man...

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Lesson 1: Do not give women relationships they don't qualify for.

This women is recreational use only. Don't be an idiot and fall in love with her and make her an LTR only to get run-over 2 years later when, lo and behold, she acts in accordance to who she is.

 

[The Duke]

How long does this girls relationships typically last? That will tell you a lot.

 

[Dash Riprock]

How much should a womans past affect you? If you are dating one person. For example the girl im seeing admitted to me that she had a threesome with 2 men when she was high on coke and drunk. She claims it wasnt entirely consensual as she wasnt in her senses but I feel like thats what all women say to write off past mistakes. Thoughts?

So she was doing coke, drunk, and had a threesome...but it wasn't consensual. Right. SMH, female "logic" baffles me. Did someone have an AK-47 aimed at her head forcing her to drink and do coke and have the threesome? Highly unlikely. It was consensual because being high or drunk isn't an excuse. SHE decided to drink and do drugs, so she's responsible for her choices. That's a big flag right there.

And then she tells you about it...like winning some sort of prize.

If she's hot, I would see her in a FWB way only. And I have "dated" plenty of women like this. One overtly told me about a threesome and one said she did a mainstream porn. Another one on a second date told me she took it up the a$$ on Valentine's Day from her ex-boyfriend as her present. You can't make this s*it up. Whatever. I had my fun and bailed.

You should likely consider doing the same.

 

[Gamisch]

Crazy how we a man can be humiliated by a woman he haven't even met yet while she did something while again, she had no idea who he was.

And thats the key!!! A woman MUST know that by giving in to impulsive behavior like this, she's sabotaging her own future. The cok3, the rum and the two d1cks were probably great and xtc like, but it would also cut out tons of proper male prospects.

In some cultures where marriage is mandatory, she would be an outcast by doing this. I been in a similar situation, and even tho its years ago I still feel the bad taste in my mouth when I just think about it.

Eject and move on. Because I ALSO got to learn that there are women who actually care about their reputation.

 

[Bingo-Player]

People can change for the better if in a positive / healthy relationship

I calmed down a lot when I got in my first LTR.

in terms of does a woman's past bother me I think it depends if it marries up or clashes with how she's trying to present herself to me in the present

I mean I met a girl in the Gym last week on the surface she was presenting a very sweet and bubbly gym bunny persona

I did some digging and found she has a few insta pages of her frequently going to raves / expensive holidays

Sharing lot of reels of FemCel / Feminism stuff

I don't know this girl well at all but it was enough for me to realise the persona that was being presented in person was very very different to the one that was living online

 

[Cartopis84]

Saw texts... didnt rlly confront asked her abt it and she cried for a whole day lol made me feel kinda bad. And she still constantly asks me multiple times a day if it has changed my opinion of her and makes me want to not be with her etc while basically crying. Its only been a few days but its hard to stop picturing it. She has also become extra clingy since then and is like love bombing me which is stressing me out Things were fine before this.

^^How did you find out? And how did you confront her about it such that it made her cry?

In any event, you can't unring this bell so may be best to go separate ways.

I will say people do make mistakes especially when very young (HS), poor decision-making, lack of boundaries etc, that they may regret and learn from. But again since this apparently troubles you so much, best to call this a day and move on.

It's your call no one else's.

Sorry man...

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[BaronOfHair]

For example the girl im seeing admitted to me that she had a threesome with 2 men when she was high on coke and drunk

Wife this chick up today... Such a union is destined for greatness, comparable to Hayden Christensen's post-Star Wars career

 

[Divorced w 3]

Saw texts... didnt rlly confront asked her abt it and she cried for a whole day lol made me feel kinda bad. And she still constantly asks me multiple times a day if it has changed my opinion of her and makes me want to not be with her etc while basically crying. Its only been a few days but its hard to stop picturing it. She has also become extra clingy since then and is like love bombing me which is stressing me out Things were fine before this.

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So to be clear- you read through her phone? And why are you ‘lol’ that she cried an entire day about it?