"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Women's Magazines
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Alpha_Animal
Don Juan
D) fair enough but otherwise theres no point really.Buck Naked
Don Juan
penkitten
Master Don Juan
good advise to the guys .Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
It's good to be open minded about things but don't take their advice to heart. The complete Archives here would be a better read.
if you read the magazines to learn about the crap we read, understand that they all have these idiot tests in them titled things like "is he a cheater?" "is he a keeper" "is it true love"
i feel society brainwashes young women this way.
same with soap operas and melrose place and jerry springer.
tmpgstx
Master Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I don't mean actually believing the BS in the magazines! You can read the magazines as a tool.
For instance if you read Elle and there is an article on Dubai or some exotic place, they don't expect men to know about it. So you say "I am planning a trip to Dubai", or if there is a hot new bar you say "let's go to blahbah lounge". They are intrigued and think you are hip and in the know. I don't get into that other crap, but it is a good way to get into women's minds. Believe me all women look at those magazines! It's pretty much comparable to men reading GQ magazine.
This is also a great tool for starting conversations with women and having something to talk about.
The-Sultan
Don Juan
why should we?
aftershock
Master Don Juan
Not that I make a habit of reading them of course.
But take everything with a pinch of salt!