"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Women's Magazines
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Alpha_Animal
Don Juan
D) fair enough but otherwise theres no point really.Buck Naked
Don Juan
penkitten
Master Don Juan
good advise to the guys .Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
It's good to be open minded about things but don't take their advice to heart. The complete Archives here would be a better read.
if you read the magazines to learn about the crap we read, understand that they all have these idiot tests in them titled things like "is he a cheater?" "is he a keeper" "is it true love"
i feel society brainwashes young women this way.
same with soap operas and melrose place and jerry springer.
tmpgstx
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I don't mean actually believing the BS in the magazines! You can read the magazines as a tool.
For instance if you read Elle and there is an article on Dubai or some exotic place, they don't expect men to know about it. So you say "I am planning a trip to Dubai", or if there is a hot new bar you say "let's go to blahbah lounge". They are intrigued and think you are hip and in the know. I don't get into that other crap, but it is a good way to get into women's minds. Believe me all women look at those magazines! It's pretty much comparable to men reading GQ magazine.
This is also a great tool for starting conversations with women and having something to talk about.
The-Sultan
Don Juan
why should we?
aftershock
Master Don Juan
Not that I make a habit of reading them of course.
But take everything with a pinch of salt!