Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Learn about the BS women read.
Read all of those women's magazines and skim through them, especially cosmo and elle
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I suppose it could help but why bother reading all that bull**** for getting girls? You are good enough for the girls without knowing all that star sign stuff and whatever else in Cosmo. If you find it interesting:)D) fair enough but otherwise theres no point really.
 

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I read Cosmo sometimes, u can learn a few things in there. Keep in mind that the people who write these mags know guys are reading them too.
 

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Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
It's good to be open minded about things but don't take their advice to heart. The complete Archives here would be a better read. ;)
good advise to the guys .

if you read the magazines to learn about the crap we read, understand that they all have these idiot tests in them titled things like "is he a cheater?" "is he a keeper" "is it true love"
i feel society brainwashes young women this way.

same with soap operas and melrose place and jerry springer.
 

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That's only for women who can't think for themselves. Usually the superficial kind that are doing that BS.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't mean actually believing the BS in the magazines! You can read the magazines as a tool.
For instance if you read Elle and there is an article on Dubai or some exotic place, they don't expect men to know about it. So you say "I am planning a trip to Dubai", or if there is a hot new bar you say "let's go to blahbah lounge". They are intrigued and think you are hip and in the know. I don't get into that other crap, but it is a good way to get into women's minds. Believe me all women look at those magazines! It's pretty much comparable to men reading GQ magazine.
This is also a great tool for starting conversations with women and having something to talk about.
 

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Originally posted by Reed247
Tip-

Learn about the BS women read.
Read all of those women's magazines and skim through them, especially cosmo and elle
why should we?
 

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I find the problem pages in them the most intriguing.

Not that I make a habit of reading them of course.

But take everything with a pinch of salt!
 
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