"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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womens behaviour in a group setting....

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Ive attended a few conferences recently there is no alcohol present and its a pretty bright room (all boring so far)

at the end of the conference everyone has a little one on one, parting chat. I've noticed most women are polite but are a bit froze up/borderline disinterested, i am not trying to chat these women up, i am just noting their behaviour

However when we are outside and a bit more isolated having a smoke/vape, the exact same women open up much more(isolated)

then when back in the conference room the women go back to being a bit more froze up

is this some kind of anti slut thing..... just an observation.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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could be just to confirm they all do it, 20 or 40, ....im not usually in this setting to much and up until now i also didnt realise how much **** blocking went on by everyone in the room

Id barely said hello to a HB 8 the other day and two men and two women were invading our chat
 
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Everyone does this, men and women. If you're in a conference, someone usually paid for you to be there so you're expected to be professional during the conference hours, and conferences are usually really fun if you know how to break the ice at the right time.

You're thinking way to far into this.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kotaix said:
Everyone does this, men and women. If you're in a conference, someone usually paid for you to be there so you're expected to be professional during the conference hours, and conferences are usually really fun if you know how to break the ice at the right time.

You're thinking way to far into this.
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not at all, we are professional, and i'm by no means trying to chat women up, just observing their behaviour

like i also said its amazing how many seem to rush over and **** block, men and woman
 
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