"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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womens behaviour in a group setting....

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Ive attended a few conferences recently there is no alcohol present and its a pretty bright room (all boring so far)

at the end of the conference everyone has a little one on one, parting chat. I've noticed most women are polite but are a bit froze up/borderline disinterested, i am not trying to chat these women up, i am just noting their behaviour

However when we are outside and a bit more isolated having a smoke/vape, the exact same women open up much more(isolated)

then when back in the conference room the women go back to being a bit more froze up

is this some kind of anti slut thing..... just an observation.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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could be just to confirm they all do it, 20 or 40, ....im not usually in this setting to much and up until now i also didnt realise how much **** blocking went on by everyone in the room

Id barely said hello to a HB 8 the other day and two men and two women were invading our chat
 
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Everyone does this, men and women. If you're in a conference, someone usually paid for you to be there so you're expected to be professional during the conference hours, and conferences are usually really fun if you know how to break the ice at the right time.

You're thinking way to far into this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kotaix said:
Everyone does this, men and women. If you're in a conference, someone usually paid for you to be there so you're expected to be professional during the conference hours, and conferences are usually really fun if you know how to break the ice at the right time.

You're thinking way to far into this.
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not at all, we are professional, and i'm by no means trying to chat women up, just observing their behaviour

like i also said its amazing how many seem to rush over and **** block, men and woman
 
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