"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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womens behaviour in a group setting....

derby1

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Ive attended a few conferences recently there is no alcohol present and its a pretty bright room (all boring so far)

at the end of the conference everyone has a little one on one, parting chat. I've noticed most women are polite but are a bit froze up/borderline disinterested, i am not trying to chat these women up, i am just noting their behaviour

However when we are outside and a bit more isolated having a smoke/vape, the exact same women open up much more(isolated)

then when back in the conference room the women go back to being a bit more froze up

is this some kind of anti slut thing..... just an observation.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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could be just to confirm they all do it, 20 or 40, ....im not usually in this setting to much and up until now i also didnt realise how much **** blocking went on by everyone in the room

Id barely said hello to a HB 8 the other day and two men and two women were invading our chat
 

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Everyone does this, men and women. If you're in a conference, someone usually paid for you to be there so you're expected to be professional during the conference hours, and conferences are usually really fun if you know how to break the ice at the right time.

You're thinking way to far into this.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Everyone does this, men and women. If you're in a conference, someone usually paid for you to be there so you're expected to be professional during the conference hours, and conferences are usually really fun if you know how to break the ice at the right time.

You're thinking way to far into this.
not at all, we are professional, and i'm by no means trying to chat women up, just observing their behaviour

like i also said its amazing how many seem to rush over and **** block, men and woman
 
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