"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Has anyone noticed how many sponsored ads are showing up on this forum that are directed to women?

I'm talking about women's fitness clubs and reading materials that are directed toward them.

What can we glean from this? Is it possible that advertisers figure that there are tons of female lurkers here?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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or do you think advertisers are thinking where men are trying ot better themselves, lets manipulate them in to bettering their women too. Example...Fitness clubs.... help your chick on the way to getting a hot body. Although i am sure there must be a few more women on here.
 

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75 % of the people on this website, and others like it, are probably women. You have to understand how women's brains work. They come to "men's sites" in order to "understand how men think".
 

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PappyS said:
75 % of the people on this website, and others like it, are probably women. You have to understand how women's brains work. They come to "men's sites" in order to "understand how men think".
Noooo, come on. As far as I know, women have a life and men don't. So men surf the internet, while women are playing out doors.
 

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The ads are placed by computer programs. Discussions of "dating and relationship" topics are almost always predominately female, both in person and on the Internet. The ad programs typically cannot tell the difference between sosuave and loveshack, even though they are very different.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bible Belt, I think you must be right about that. Still I would swear that there has been a sudden sharp rise in female advertising.
 
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