"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Women's ads on this forum

Atom Smasher

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Has anyone noticed how many sponsored ads are showing up on this forum that are directed to women?

I'm talking about women's fitness clubs and reading materials that are directed toward them.

What can we glean from this? Is it possible that advertisers figure that there are tons of female lurkers here?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cinamon

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or do you think advertisers are thinking where men are trying ot better themselves, lets manipulate them in to bettering their women too. Example...Fitness clubs.... help your chick on the way to getting a hot body. Although i am sure there must be a few more women on here.
 

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75 % of the people on this website, and others like it, are probably women. You have to understand how women's brains work. They come to "men's sites" in order to "understand how men think".
 

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PappyS said:
75 % of the people on this website, and others like it, are probably women. You have to understand how women's brains work. They come to "men's sites" in order to "understand how men think".
Noooo, come on. As far as I know, women have a life and men don't. So men surf the internet, while women are playing out doors.
 

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The ads are placed by computer programs. Discussions of "dating and relationship" topics are almost always predominately female, both in person and on the Internet. The ad programs typically cannot tell the difference between sosuave and loveshack, even though they are very different.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Atom Smasher

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Bible Belt, I think you must be right about that. Still I would swear that there has been a sudden sharp rise in female advertising.
 
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