Women with Children(It's getting worse fellas)

[KarmaSutra]

strong fail karma. you mad bro?

You're goddamned right I'm mad.

You wonder why women won't have anything to do with boys who are grown up?

That's why.

 

[Solomon]

Agreed with Karma single women are nothing but baggage. Why a man would try to take care of another mans child is beyond me. In most cases you would still have to deal with both of the fathers and mothers issues because your part of the love triangle with the kid/s stuck in the middle. But what really gets me is these are the same women who run around claiming ''men aint sh!t''. Obviously he had something they liked but there are those of us who know emotion overules logic with these girls. I can understand people make mistakes but the majority of the time people want to (And Do) what they want despite all of the warning signs. Or there too afraid to be alone so they'll often be with someone they don't really want to be with. Its like they feel obligated.

Guy - ''Im only gonna move in with her because I don't wanna live with my parents''

GIRL - ''Im only gonna give him some pvssy because the daddy wont take care of my child. Hopefully this man will....''

I see your point I really do
However In my experience most single mothers fall in two categories

1. They went with the bad boys/Loser/thug, and as they approaching their 30's all of a sudden they wanna be "Wifed up". Typically those chicks have multiple baby daddies

2. She was married/long term relationship with a guy and it didn't work

honestly back when I was younger my naivete was that a single mom would be a better choice as a girlfriend then a single chick, cause their more serious having a child!

Boy was I wrong and did I wake up quick, some of the foulest/shadiest chicks I've met have been single moms.

I don't think their is nothing wrong with getting one if she is a great person and a women you can be with

But for me as of right now, their bang/hang out status only

 

[caporal]

Look everyone makes mistakes and you really don't know the details of a certain person's circumstances...it's not like everyone here hasn't probably been lucky at least a few times of not getting a girl pregnant.. :cheer:

There are lots of good people out there. Some people move past their mistakes. Sure there are some trailer park trash b.itches, but there are some genuinely good people. And we all know from being at this forum that just as women can be fickle and cold, so can men. There are some women who likely have really cared about the man they had, and probably were trying their best and maybe he had an affair, ect, ect -- it's hard to judge someone entirely (although for fu.ck's sake I do this myself..)
Happiness can take many forms. Don't discredit a good person just because they've got babies...clearly, see if it fits into your life scheme, doesn't have to be YOUR children...but you may be passing up a good opportunity. My .02 cents.

WELL SAID BUDDHA

My friends, I have a moral dilemma here because I believe on both sides. I believe women are baggage and I believe some women are worth it even with a kid. I can accept 1 kid because everyone can make 1 mistake. Now several kids, I kick em to the curb. I know of one great girl who is 28 and had a kid when she was 20 and the father was cheating on her big time, so she decided to kick him out of her life. I am dating her on an international LongDistanceRel. (after having lived with her prior for 5 months) she is waiting to meet up with me but I am considering everything. I have a few other options available. None of them can amount to her trust and love, and how she takes care of me, but I hate the idea of the kid even though he is a good kid lol, like who on here wants to be on that position at my age right? but sometimes I say fvck it i have to break up with her while other times im like maybe she is right for me...

 

[betheman]

there is a whole diferent dynamic going on when there is another mans child, you are filling a role that isnt yours, you are surrogate, ersatz, not quite the real deal! ergo, something missing! ex was a bad boy, we all know how women view the ex bad boy, the bew guy is providing the practical sh!t and getting paid in pu$$y while her mind is still on the bad boy/s!
its a battle against the tide in about 90% of the cases

 

[Warrior74]

You're goddamned right I'm mad.

You wonder why women won't have anything to do with boys who are grown up?

That's why.

Jakes on you. I'm an octopus. Lulz.

 

[Sue Madre]

Jakes on you. I'm an octopus. Lulz.

LOL. OMG. WTF?!

 

[Warrior74]

LOL. OMG. WTF?!

IKR, TOTES JELOTES BRO. SMW!

 

[KarmaSutra]

IKR, TOTES JELOTES BRO. SMW!

Sh!t.

BackBreaker and Warrior are the same lunatic.

Um? Omg?

 

[Warrior74]

hahahaha. I'm angry! I'm gonna leave!

*stops posting for 4 hours, comes back like nothing happened*

 

[f283000]

The best advantage of a single mom = condom free, pregnancy free worryless secks

I am talking about single mom's in their 40's. I don't know why guys would get involved with any woman in her 20s or 30's that has a kid. These irresponsible young sluts are the ones that are looking for a sugar daddy, they are the ones that would probably get pregnant again for the sake of child support or because they don't believe in abortion (i know cases).

Older milfs just want some fun and sure as hell don't want another kid in their lives (and because they can't too old to get pregnant).

There are plenty of hot young women everywhere I see no reason for any guy to go after a single mom in her 20's or 30's. Get a proper milf (40+)

I had a milf 20 years older than me one time and busted inside her every time. Nothing better than not having to worry about possible kids and doing it with no condom. It's the only advantage of a milf.

 

[KarmaSutra]

Fabulous retort!

That was perfect.

 

[caporal]

Fabulous retort!

That was perfect.

WHICH one was perfect?


My friends, I Have questions,

do you think ALL single moms are looking for a chump / sugar daddy?

Does the father of the kid ALWAYS have a right of way to her pvussy?

Can't she hate the bad boy father or even if she hates him she would still fvuck him anyways whenever he wants?

 

[Warrior74]

WHICH one was perfect?


My friends, I Have questions,

do you think ALL single moms are looking for a chump / sugar daddy?

Does the father of the kid ALWAYS have a right of way to her pvussy?

Can't she hate the bad boy father or even if she hates him she would still fvuck him anyways whenever he wants?

Of course not. Saying ALL of any group of people will behave in EXACTLY the same way is called stereotyping. Understanding that MANY people in a group in the same situation MAY behave in the same way is called being aware.

Be aware.

 

[caporal]

Of course not. Saying ALL of any group of people will behave in EXACTLY the same way is called stereotyping. Understanding that MANY people in a group in the same situation MAY behave in the same way is called being aware.

Be aware.

OK WARRIOR I AGREE, LETS NOT SAY ALL, LETS SAY MOST, WHAT DO YOU THINK OF MOST OF THEM?

 

[Nutz]

WHICH one was perfect?


My friends, I Have questions,

do you think ALL single moms are looking for a chuhttp://www.sosuave.net/forum/images/editor/separator.gifmp / sugar daddy?

Does the father of the kid ALWAYS have a right of way to her pvussy?

Can't she hate the bad boy father or even if she hates him she would still fvuck him anyways whenever he wants?

In my experience the baby daddy isn't a factor, and yes, they are looking for a replacement financier and someone to take over the daddy role. Whether they realize it or not is immaterial, the signs are there.

 

[Sparky]

My brother is 5 years older than me and married a single mommy in 2006. He was my age when he married her. He now has a 3 year old boy of his own with her.

Everytime he comes home he bust my balls for refusing to grow up( meaning settling down).

You know the saying about tattoos - the only people who mind whether you have tattos or not are those people WITHOUT tattoos.
Night owls and early birds (hours that people keep) - It's always the early birds telling the night owls to go to bed earlier and get up earlier, never the other way round.
Well I find the same applies here. You don't catch single older men hammering on at their friends to stay single and not get married, but you DO get the married ones nagging the single ones about "growing up" (they obviously don't know the meaning of "grown up").
I think it's an insecurity thing to reenforce in their own minds that they made the right decision.
Best just ignore it in all three cases.