KarmaSutra
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You're goddamned right I'm mad.Warrior74 said:
You wonder why women won't have anything to do with boys who are grown up?
That's why.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Women with Children(It's getting worse fellas)
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You wonder why women won't have anything to do with boys who are grown up?
That's why.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
I see your point I really doProDJ26 said:
However In my experience most single mothers fall in two categories
1. They went with the bad boys/Loser/thug, and as they approaching their 30's all of a sudden they wanna be "Wifed up". Typically those chicks have multiple baby daddies
2. She was married/long term relationship with a guy and it didn't work
honestly back when I was younger my naivete was that a single mom would be a better choice as a girlfriend then a single chick, cause their more serious having a child!
Boy was I wrong and did I wake up quick, some of the foulest/shadiest chicks I've met have been single moms.
I don't think their is nothing wrong with getting one if she is a great person and a women you can be with
But for me as of right now, their bang/hang out status only
caporal
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WELL SAID BUDDHABuddha_Mind said:
My friends, I have a moral dilemma here because I believe on both sides. I believe women are baggage and I believe some women are worth it even with a kid. I can accept 1 kid because everyone can make 1 mistake. Now several kids, I kick em to the curb. I know of one great girl who is 28 and had a kid when she was 20 and the father was cheating on her big time, so she decided to kick him out of her life. I am dating her on an international LongDistanceRel. (after having lived with her prior for 5 months) she is waiting to meet up with me but I am considering everything. I have a few other options available. None of them can amount to her trust and love, and how she takes care of me, but I hate the idea of the kid even though he is a good kid lol, like who on here wants to be on that position at my age right? but sometimes I say fvck it i have to break up with her while other times im like maybe she is right for me...
there is a whole diferent dynamic going on when there is another mans child, you are filling a role that isnt yours, you are surrogate, ersatz, not quite the real deal! ergo, something missing! ex was a bad boy, we all know how women view the ex bad boy, the bew guy is providing the practical sh!t and getting paid in pu$$y while her mind is still on the bad boy/s!
its a battle against the tide in about 90% of the cases
its a battle against the tide in about 90% of the cases
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
KarmaSutra
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Sh!t.Warrior74 said:
BackBreaker and Warrior are the same lunatic.
Um? Omg?
The best advantage of a single mom = condom free, pregnancy free worryless secks
I am talking about single mom's in their 40's. I don't know why guys would get involved with any woman in her 20s or 30's that has a kid. These irresponsible young sluts are the ones that are looking for a sugar daddy, they are the ones that would probably get pregnant again for the sake of child support or because they don't believe in abortion (i know cases).
Older milfs just want some fun and sure as hell don't want another kid in their lives (and because they can't too old to get pregnant).
There are plenty of hot young women everywhere I see no reason for any guy to go after a single mom in her 20's or 30's. Get a proper milf (40+)
I had a milf 20 years older than me one time and busted inside her every time. Nothing better than not having to worry about possible kids and doing it with no condom. It's the only advantage of a milf.
I am talking about single mom's in their 40's. I don't know why guys would get involved with any woman in her 20s or 30's that has a kid. These irresponsible young sluts are the ones that are looking for a sugar daddy, they are the ones that would probably get pregnant again for the sake of child support or because they don't believe in abortion (i know cases).
Older milfs just want some fun and sure as hell don't want another kid in their lives (and because they can't too old to get pregnant).
There are plenty of hot young women everywhere I see no reason for any guy to go after a single mom in her 20's or 30's. Get a proper milf (40+)
I had a milf 20 years older than me one time and busted inside her every time. Nothing better than not having to worry about possible kids and doing it with no condom. It's the only advantage of a milf.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Fabulous retort!
That was perfect.
That was perfect.
caporal
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WHICH one was perfect?KarmaSutra said:
My friends, I Have questions,
do you think ALL single moms are looking for a chump / sugar daddy?
Does the father of the kid ALWAYS have a right of way to her pvussy?
Can't she hate the bad boy father or even if she hates him she would still fvuck him anyways whenever he wants?
caporal said:
Of course not. Saying ALL of any group of people will behave in EXACTLY the same way is called stereotyping. Understanding that MANY people in a group in the same situation MAY behave in the same way is called being aware.
Be aware.
caporal
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OK WARRIOR I AGREE, LETS NOT SAY ALL, LETS SAY MOST, WHAT DO YOU THINK OF MOST OF THEM?Warrior74 said:
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caporal said:
In my experience the baby daddy isn't a factor, and yes, they are looking for a replacement financier and someone to take over the daddy role. Whether they realize it or not is immaterial, the signs are there.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You know the saying about tattoos - the only people who mind whether you have tattos or not are those people WITHOUT tattoos.Tiguere said:
Night owls and early birds (hours that people keep) - It's always the early birds telling the night owls to go to bed earlier and get up earlier, never the other way round.
Well I find the same applies here. You don't catch single older men hammering on at their friends to stay single and not get married, but you DO get the married ones nagging the single ones about "growing up" (they obviously don't know the meaning of "grown up").
I think it's an insecurity thing to reenforce in their own minds that they made the right decision.
Best just ignore it in all three cases.