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You're goddamned right I'm mad.Warrior74 said:
You wonder why women won't have anything to do with boys who are grown up?
That's why.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Women with Children(It's getting worse fellas)
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You wonder why women won't have anything to do with boys who are grown up?
That's why.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Solomon
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I see your point I really doProDJ26 said:
However In my experience most single mothers fall in two categories
1. They went with the bad boys/Loser/thug, and as they approaching their 30's all of a sudden they wanna be "Wifed up". Typically those chicks have multiple baby daddies
2. She was married/long term relationship with a guy and it didn't work
honestly back when I was younger my naivete was that a single mom would be a better choice as a girlfriend then a single chick, cause their more serious having a child!
Boy was I wrong and did I wake up quick, some of the foulest/shadiest chicks I've met have been single moms.
I don't think their is nothing wrong with getting one if she is a great person and a women you can be with
But for me as of right now, their bang/hang out status only
caporal
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WELL SAID BUDDHABuddha_Mind said:
My friends, I have a moral dilemma here because I believe on both sides. I believe women are baggage and I believe some women are worth it even with a kid. I can accept 1 kid because everyone can make 1 mistake. Now several kids, I kick em to the curb. I know of one great girl who is 28 and had a kid when she was 20 and the father was cheating on her big time, so she decided to kick him out of her life. I am dating her on an international LongDistanceRel. (after having lived with her prior for 5 months) she is waiting to meet up with me but I am considering everything. I have a few other options available. None of them can amount to her trust and love, and how she takes care of me, but I hate the idea of the kid even though he is a good kid lol, like who on here wants to be on that position at my age right? but sometimes I say fvck it i have to break up with her while other times im like maybe she is right for me...
there is a whole diferent dynamic going on when there is another mans child, you are filling a role that isnt yours, you are surrogate, ersatz, not quite the real deal! ergo, something missing! ex was a bad boy, we all know how women view the ex bad boy, the bew guy is providing the practical sh!t and getting paid in pu$$y while her mind is still on the bad boy/s!
its a battle against the tide in about 90% of the cases
its a battle against the tide in about 90% of the cases
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Sh!t.Warrior74 said:
BackBreaker and Warrior are the same lunatic.
Um? Omg?
The best advantage of a single mom = condom free, pregnancy free worryless secks
I am talking about single mom's in their 40's. I don't know why guys would get involved with any woman in her 20s or 30's that has a kid. These irresponsible young sluts are the ones that are looking for a sugar daddy, they are the ones that would probably get pregnant again for the sake of child support or because they don't believe in abortion (i know cases).
Older milfs just want some fun and sure as hell don't want another kid in their lives (and because they can't too old to get pregnant).
There are plenty of hot young women everywhere I see no reason for any guy to go after a single mom in her 20's or 30's. Get a proper milf (40+)
I had a milf 20 years older than me one time and busted inside her every time. Nothing better than not having to worry about possible kids and doing it with no condom. It's the only advantage of a milf.
I am talking about single mom's in their 40's. I don't know why guys would get involved with any woman in her 20s or 30's that has a kid. These irresponsible young sluts are the ones that are looking for a sugar daddy, they are the ones that would probably get pregnant again for the sake of child support or because they don't believe in abortion (i know cases).
Older milfs just want some fun and sure as hell don't want another kid in their lives (and because they can't too old to get pregnant).
There are plenty of hot young women everywhere I see no reason for any guy to go after a single mom in her 20's or 30's. Get a proper milf (40+)
I had a milf 20 years older than me one time and busted inside her every time. Nothing better than not having to worry about possible kids and doing it with no condom. It's the only advantage of a milf.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Fabulous retort!
That was perfect.
That was perfect.
caporal
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WHICH one was perfect?KarmaSutra said:
My friends, I Have questions,
do you think ALL single moms are looking for a chump / sugar daddy?
Does the father of the kid ALWAYS have a right of way to her pvussy?
Can't she hate the bad boy father or even if she hates him she would still fvuck him anyways whenever he wants?
caporal said:
Of course not. Saying ALL of any group of people will behave in EXACTLY the same way is called stereotyping. Understanding that MANY people in a group in the same situation MAY behave in the same way is called being aware.
Be aware.
caporal
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OK WARRIOR I AGREE, LETS NOT SAY ALL, LETS SAY MOST, WHAT DO YOU THINK OF MOST OF THEM?Warrior74 said:
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caporal said:
In my experience the baby daddy isn't a factor, and yes, they are looking for a replacement financier and someone to take over the daddy role. Whether they realize it or not is immaterial, the signs are there.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You know the saying about tattoos - the only people who mind whether you have tattos or not are those people WITHOUT tattoos.Tiguere said:
Night owls and early birds (hours that people keep) - It's always the early birds telling the night owls to go to bed earlier and get up earlier, never the other way round.
Well I find the same applies here. You don't catch single older men hammering on at their friends to stay single and not get married, but you DO get the married ones nagging the single ones about "growing up" (they obviously don't know the meaning of "grown up").
I think it's an insecurity thing to reenforce in their own minds that they made the right decision.
Best just ignore it in all three cases.