You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
OK OK OK...the women you just showed are hot....no doubt. BUT.....You cant tell me you would hit that over this......http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7QmfcSABWRkLe Parisien said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sorry to disappoint you, I'd prefer the Victoria's Secret models over this latina.rakishness said:
See, this is what I was talking about!Cash said:
It's all good man. Everyone is different. Every guy has their own visual weakness.Le Parisien said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Exactly. Let's shake hands.rakishness said:
She must be a track star or something cause her legs are built. She's cute though, but her booty cant compete.Le Parisien said:- In the video, the girls on the left has a nice body, the one on the right clearly has some pounds to lose, just look at her tummy.
- The girl in the pic IS hot!
Oh, just another video linked by yours, tell me if you find this hot... I guess you already know my take on the question.
Actually I agree, her azz is sloppy on her. The azz has to be proportionate to the rest of her body.Le Parisien said:See, this is what I was talking about!
A short girl with a very average face, but who has disproportionately large azzes and very fatty thighs.
Considered strangely proportioned and average at best by most people, but seen as the ultimate hotness by many black guys...
I never said it was the ultimate in hotness. However, sometimes you see something that gets your **** hard. Nothing to do with proportions/fractions, just seeing something you would love too hit. That image being a prime example.Le Parisien said:See, this is what I was talking about!
A short girl with a very average face, but who has disproportionately large azzes and very fatty thighs.
Considered strangely proportioned and average at best by most people, but seen as the ultimate hotness by many black guys...
Sorry, you image made me goCash said:
... "Gross" was the word on my mind, let alone the rest...Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Storing some is one thing (love them breasts) but storing so much that her skin stretches from the gravity is not attractive.Ice Cold said:
), while other guys tend to agree with me. Generally speaking, black guys don't really mind the extra pounds as long as there's a big butt.Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.