You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
OK OK OK...the women you just showed are hot....no doubt. BUT.....You cant tell me you would hit that over this......http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7QmfcSABWRkLe Parisien said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Sorry to disappoint you, I'd prefer the Victoria's Secret models over this latina.rakishness said:
See, this is what I was talking about!Cash said:
It's all good man. Everyone is different. Every guy has their own visual weakness.Le Parisien said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Exactly. Let's shake hands.rakishness said:
She must be a track star or something cause her legs are built. She's cute though, but her booty cant compete.Le Parisien said:- In the video, the girls on the left has a nice body, the one on the right clearly has some pounds to lose, just look at her tummy.
- The girl in the pic IS hot!
Oh, just another video linked by yours, tell me if you find this hot... I guess you already know my take on the question.
Actually I agree, her azz is sloppy on her. The azz has to be proportionate to the rest of her body.Le Parisien said:See, this is what I was talking about!
A short girl with a very average face, but who has disproportionately large azzes and very fatty thighs.
Considered strangely proportioned and average at best by most people, but seen as the ultimate hotness by many black guys...
I never said it was the ultimate in hotness. However, sometimes you see something that gets your **** hard. Nothing to do with proportions/fractions, just seeing something you would love too hit. That image being a prime example.Le Parisien said:See, this is what I was talking about!
A short girl with a very average face, but who has disproportionately large azzes and very fatty thighs.
Considered strangely proportioned and average at best by most people, but seen as the ultimate hotness by many black guys...
Sorry, you image made me goCash said:
... "Gross" was the word on my mind, let alone the rest...She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Storing some is one thing (love them breasts) but storing so much that her skin stretches from the gravity is not attractive.Ice Cold said:
), while other guys tend to agree with me. Generally speaking, black guys don't really mind the extra pounds as long as there's a big butt.You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.