THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
I dont mind a big booty. I just hate fat girls who think they are hot **** just because of their fat ass (wonder how they got that anyways
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
100% right, over here in NY guys go crazy. These are probably the only chicks who could pass with a decent enough face and still be considered 8s to some men. I've literally seen a whole block stop just to look at this one girl, I've seen perverted camera men running down the street to record the footage of the girl walking. Camera phones, etc. These types of girls get treated just like the pretty 9s that don't have such assets.Maximus Rex said:On the issue of the a$$. The a$$ fetish is mostly held by members of minority groups or white guys that like Black and Spanish women. I personally think J-Lo has a very nice a$$, typical of Spanish women in NYC. Put J-LO in a cell with me. I'd do something real nasty to her.
It's like comparing Anna Kournikova to Serena Williams.DJDamage said:Aman.
Tight shapley glutes its what it is about. If a chick has a fat ass you know its going to get worse as she ages. Any chick with a really big ass or even a flat ass needs to go to the gym and work it out.
An excercise specifically for the glutes won't be a bad idea either....
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My thoughts exactly. There was always this one chick at work who was like, "Big girls right it harder yo!". Everytime she said that I was thinking, 'big difference between thick girls and obesity'.THE_ADDMAN said:I dont mind a big booty. I just hate fat girls who think they are hot **** just because of their fat ass (wonder how they got that anyways)
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Does the woman in the first picture look as if her thighs are bigger than her ass? I mean her ass is already big but with those thighs, I can only imaging how she'll look in 10 years if she doesn't firm up.Cash said:It's so tiresome when certain forumites come out with the usual, "how could you like fat asses, i don't get it - I would rather a women with an ass of that of a ten year old boy" BS.
My personal theory is that, the better (bigger) equipt you are to handle a 'bigger' ass the more likely you are prefere and crave one.
Exhibit 1
Exhibit 2
The ass in the images above could hardly be classed as 'fat' even by traditional western standards, but could well be classified as 'big' relative to that of your avarage woman of similar slim build today. If this is the case, then God bless big asses. IMO A womans ass is by far her best physical asset and the first thing i look at after the face.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
More like a Capital BSkilla_Staz said:I like those C booties...
Where from the profile it looks like the letter C. Except the letter c curves in at the top and bottom, that would look weird. But you get the idea.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Big asses and big thighs are awesome. Just hit it from the back and its like riding a wave or a rollercoaster, whichever you prefer.Francisco d'Anconia said:Does the woman in the first picture look as if her thighs are bigger than her ass? I mean her ass is already big but with those thighs, I can only imaging how she'll look in 10 years if she doesn't firm up.
I'm sorry but I'm not tappin' nothing from the back that has fat rolling in like the waves of a tsunami. The women either look misproportioned by being bottom heavy or their fat is settling in their hips and ass after running out of space in their gut, their arms and their chins.oakraiderz2 said:Big asses and big thighs are awesome. Just hit it from the back and its like riding a wave or a rollercoaster, whichever you prefer.
manchild said:I'm in college and I see big booty girls in the library all the time. lol
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.