THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
I dont mind a big booty. I just hate fat girls who think they are hot **** just because of their fat ass (wonder how they got that anyways
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
100% right, over here in NY guys go crazy. These are probably the only chicks who could pass with a decent enough face and still be considered 8s to some men. I've literally seen a whole block stop just to look at this one girl, I've seen perverted camera men running down the street to record the footage of the girl walking. Camera phones, etc. These types of girls get treated just like the pretty 9s that don't have such assets.Maximus Rex said:On the issue of the a$$. The a$$ fetish is mostly held by members of minority groups or white guys that like Black and Spanish women. I personally think J-Lo has a very nice a$$, typical of Spanish women in NYC. Put J-LO in a cell with me. I'd do something real nasty to her.
It's like comparing Anna Kournikova to Serena Williams.DJDamage said:Aman.
Tight shapley glutes its what it is about. If a chick has a fat ass you know its going to get worse as she ages. Any chick with a really big ass or even a flat ass needs to go to the gym and work it out.
An excercise specifically for the glutes won't be a bad idea either....
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My thoughts exactly. There was always this one chick at work who was like, "Big girls right it harder yo!". Everytime she said that I was thinking, 'big difference between thick girls and obesity'.THE_ADDMAN said:I dont mind a big booty. I just hate fat girls who think they are hot **** just because of their fat ass (wonder how they got that anyways)
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Does the woman in the first picture look as if her thighs are bigger than her ass? I mean her ass is already big but with those thighs, I can only imaging how she'll look in 10 years if she doesn't firm up.Cash said:It's so tiresome when certain forumites come out with the usual, "how could you like fat asses, i don't get it - I would rather a women with an ass of that of a ten year old boy" BS.
My personal theory is that, the better (bigger) equipt you are to handle a 'bigger' ass the more likely you are prefere and crave one.
Exhibit 1
Exhibit 2
The ass in the images above could hardly be classed as 'fat' even by traditional western standards, but could well be classified as 'big' relative to that of your avarage woman of similar slim build today. If this is the case, then God bless big asses. IMO A womans ass is by far her best physical asset and the first thing i look at after the face.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
More like a Capital BSkilla_Staz said:I like those C booties...
Where from the profile it looks like the letter C. Except the letter c curves in at the top and bottom, that would look weird. But you get the idea.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Big asses and big thighs are awesome. Just hit it from the back and its like riding a wave or a rollercoaster, whichever you prefer.Francisco d'Anconia said:Does the woman in the first picture look as if her thighs are bigger than her ass? I mean her ass is already big but with those thighs, I can only imaging how she'll look in 10 years if she doesn't firm up.
I'm sorry but I'm not tappin' nothing from the back that has fat rolling in like the waves of a tsunami. The women either look misproportioned by being bottom heavy or their fat is settling in their hips and ass after running out of space in their gut, their arms and their chins.oakraiderz2 said:Big asses and big thighs are awesome. Just hit it from the back and its like riding a wave or a rollercoaster, whichever you prefer.
manchild said:I'm in college and I see big booty girls in the library all the time. lol
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.