“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Women with a different guy every time you see her

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This one hot babe

lets say I’ve seen her around at various events and stuff, at least twice per week, and every few weeks I see her walking around

every, effing, time this btch is with a different guy. Every time. And she will snuggle up to him and other stupid nonsense

over the past two years I swear ive seen a rotion of about 80 different dudes. Always a different dude

so she’s hot as hell (and rich if I remember correctly) and totally my type EXCEPT for how she’s constantly with some other dude

Last week I saw her all sitting next to a multicultural guy and she made a big woke deal about it publicly to be seen, and I was never attracted to her ever again. That whole fetish of white girls and blacks guys is the biggest turn off for me, that there is. yuck

so anyways today I’m walking and in a bad mood and she walks across the street with some effing dude, a white dude probably I don’t care, and I just cringed and she saw it and she stopped in the middle of the effing road from my bad reaction, like yuck

I was ready to dry heave In the middle of the road myself

anyways guys, several years ago I met her and she said hi to me and we chatted. she’s damn hot. But I can’t deal with the hundreds of dudes

she literally has a new dude assigned to sit next to her each day like a puppy dog. And they’re straight dudes.

she’s a throw away to me at this stage even though she’s attractive and my type, the whole non stop “he’s just my friend“ nonsense is totally not my style

Id be this alpha dude constantly having to debate and enforce against her nonstop “he’s just my friend“ nonsense

I couldn’t even stand banging her just once
 
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why are you fixated on one chick… once again there’s no shortage of bad btches out here brother. You see she’s a pass around, note and move out. On to the next ….. no offense stop living in scarcity
 

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@intricate design "probably I don’t care, and I just cringed..."

You care about some broad you're not even paired up with, entirely too much, same way Woke Warriors and Moral Majority-style Bible Humpers are united in their obsession with what everyone else is doing in our bedrooms
 

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soooooo..... Here's my spitballing approach here. If hundreds or thousands of guys are all over her and she's all over them, GOOD. The men chasing and obsessing over HER (totally not you, the alpha that you are, right?) aren't going after other women. She's doing you a favor by pulling dudes. Let her do that and strike while the iron is hot with other women? Get to mackin' n' cut the slackin'!
 

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why are you fixated on one chick… once again there’s no shortage of bad btches out here brother. You see she’s a pass around, note and move out. On to the next ….. no offense stop living in scarcity
It’s the old trope of “she is having sex with everyone else except me.”
 

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Hi Intricate Design,
Remember that Steven Stills Song.."If you can't be with the one you love Honey,then love the one you are with".
 

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lol…haha I say make it even and try to one up her by bringing different girls to the show yourself even if it’s platonic friends. The world is your freakin oyster and life is too short to be simping over just one gal. Spin more plates and talk to more than one person.
 

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This one hot babe

lets say I’ve seen her around at various events and stuff, at least twice per week, and every few weeks I see her walking around

every, effing, time this btch is with a different guy. Every time. And she will snuggle up to him and other stupid nonsense

over the past two years I swear ive seen a rotion of about 80 different dudes. Always a different dude

so she’s hot as hell (and rich if I remember correctly) and totally my type EXCEPT for how she’s constantly with some other dude

Last week I saw her all sitting next to a multicultural guy and she made a big woke deal about it publicly to be seen, and I was never attracted to her ever again. That whole fetish of white girls and blacks guys is the biggest turn off for me, that there is. yuck

so anyways today I’m walking and in a bad mood and she walks across the street with some effing dude, a white dude probably I don’t care, and I just cringed and she saw it and she stopped in the middle of the effing road from my bad reaction, like yuck

I was ready to dry heave In the middle of the road myself

anyways guys, several years ago I met her and she said hi to me and we chatted. she’s damn hot. But I can’t deal with the hundreds of dudes

she literally has a new dude assigned to sit next to her each day like a puppy dog. And they’re straight dudes.

she’s a throw away to me at this stage even though she’s attractive and my type, the whole non stop “he’s just my friend“ nonsense is totally not my style

Id be this alpha dude constantly having to debate and enforce against her nonstop “he’s just my friend“ nonsense

I couldn’t even stand banging her just once
I dont understand the point of your post....just seems like you care more about this than you are letting on,thats my takeaway
 

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I’m just sharing the character type. the woman who always has a new boyfriend in tow, like every day. It’s not my cup of tea

and I mean, it’s not like I’m the only one who notices. She’s hot and rich. I’m sure the other women in the room think along the same lines as I do

she reminds me so much of my ex wife. she can create a never ending supply of these type of dudes in record time
 

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over the past two years I swear ive seen a rotion of about 80 different dudes. Always a different dude
I know the type. She likes the constant thrill of a new guy and of different guys being into her - and it's easy for her because she's so hot. I imagine in these days of OLD, it's even easier, like shooting fish in a barrel. It's interesting that you say she's your type though - I'm guessing you're looking beyond her just being hot. I wonder if some of that comes from her having learned how to appeal to a large variety of different types of guys - because she likes a lot of attention, from a lot of different guys.
 

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She‘s a split image of my ex wife and also my previous girlfriends. long red ginger hair blue eyes / end of story

really pisses me off too

oh and oddly, online dating never matches me with red haired women. I’ve noticed this for the past few years. I’ve flipped thru thousands of profiles and almost Zero of them are red heads

thats the algorithm. Because in real life I match up with them like magnets
 

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Take my word in the spirit that’s intended. You seem way too concerned about her. Like she’s occupying your mind and your mood. You don’t even know her.
You need to focus on your own goals and those closest to you, and that’s it. Your life is your life and her life is her life. Never let anyone control your mood. Only you are in control of that.

This will go against the grain on this site. But you should know that these types of girls typically have had major trauma growing up. Whether it’s no daddy around, mental and physical abuse from mom or stepdad or neglect. When your brain is still “wet” as a child and experience horrible circumstances like mom bringing home a different guy every weekend or being abused, that behavior seems like the usual or standard way of doing things. They’ll believe that this is the way of things, so when they experience honest and stable people later in life they freak out, or in other words sabotage anyone good because it feels so unusual and confusing and not what they were used to when growing up.

Bottom line, these girls have deep, deep issues. They have their own demons and it’s best to steer clear of them. In a way I feel bad for them. They need serious therapy to reallign their thinking. You’re wasting your time on rationalizing these types so focus primarily on yourself.

edit: the girl you’re describing certainly had a void from having a male influence in her life. This has led her to to fill that emptiness with numerous men. It’s like a high for them.
 
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It’s the old trope of “she is having sex with everyone else except me.”
lol nice

so let me break this down into the real life psychology of what’s going on

what this woman actually wants is one boyfriend who places restrictions on who she can associate with. She wants a guy to put an end to her stupid nonsense (endless stream of guys)

she wants a bf to boss her around, tell her what to do, when she is allowed to do it, and who she is allowed to associate with. A solid dad figure

hehe and judging from your replies here, half of you bought into her scam. She bosses all these dudes around in a way, she calls every shot, every move, she says let’s go here, or let’s hang out with this person.

in other words, despite her appearance of having an endless stream of guys hanging around, she actually likes to be restricted and given rules and strict directions. She likes the idea of all her big social circle wondering where she’s been, and wondering why her new bf pulled her away from her “friends“

then when we break up and she’s without her controlling bf she will contact all her friends again an be stupid again, until she finds a way to crawl back to the guy who restricted her social circle. The only guy who calls her on her BS

it works best when restricting her from friends while re-introducing her to time spent with her family members.

ive seen this play out enough times dudes
 
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lol nice

so let me break this down into the real life psychology of what’s going on

what this woman actually wants is one boyfriend who places restrictions on who she can associate with. She wants a guy to put an end to her stupid nonsense (endless stream of guys)

she wants a bf to boss her around, tell her what to do, when she is allowed to do it, and who she is allowed to associate with. A solid dad figure

hehe and judging from your replies here, half of you bought into her scam. She bosses all these dudes around in a way, she calls every shot, every move, she says let’s go here, or let’s hang out with this person.

in other words, despite her appearance of having an endless stream of guys hanging around, she actually likes to be restricted and given rules and strict directions. She likes the idea of all her big social circle wondering where she’s been, and wondering why her new bf pulled her away from her “friends“

then when we break up and she’s without her controlling bf she will contact all her friends again an be stupid again, until she finds a way to crawl back to the guy who restricted her social circle. The only guy who calls her on her BS

it works best when restricting her from friends while re-introducing her to time spent with her family members.

ive seen this play out enough times dudes
You might as well have written a whole audiobook about this chick. Go lift.
 

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Well the jig is up
saw her again today and her hair roots showed (not a real ginger hair)

nothing more to say
 
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