"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Women who tease you? IOI?
- Thread starter Mazer
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
PeasantPlayer
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Yes women love teasing me about my hair loss, end up banging a lot of them. Don't take everything so personally and stay away from low blows. Keep it endearing to get her comfortable then you can sexualize it
Girl I’ve been on a couple dates with can be ruthless with her teasing, but she reacts super positively if I can either (1) spin it back on her, or (2) own it and build off her teasing and exaggerate to make it a joke - showing her that the teasing doesn’t affect your frame and it runs like water off the back of a duck.
This.