"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Women who tease you? IOI?

Mazer

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I am a very sarcastic person and enjoy bantering. What are your experiences with women who are very sarcastic and tease you. Indicator of Interest? Friend? Entertainment?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PeasantPlayer

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I am a very sarcastic person and enjoy bantering. What are your experiences with women who are very sarcastic and tease you. Indicator of Interest? Friend? Entertainment?
Yes women love teasing me about my hair loss, end up banging a lot of them. Don't take everything so personally and stay away from low blows. Keep it endearing to get her comfortable then you can sexualize it
 

BJP1991

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Usually a good sign, as long as there are other IOIs present.

Girl I’ve been on a couple dates with can be ruthless with her teasing, but she reacts super positively if I can either (1) spin it back on her, or (2) own it and build off her teasing and exaggerate to make it a joke - showing her that the teasing doesn’t affect your frame and it runs like water off the back of a duck.
 
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