"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm talking to a woman who is constantly saying nice things about me. How great I am basically and we're going to meet soon.

She seems nice and laid back and I'm wondering has anybody any experiance of women who compliment them often? I just respond with a thank you and give her a compliment back the odd time.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I am always on guard when a woman praises me too much because I know that something is up and its just a matter of time before I find out the real reason.

slaog said:
How great I am basically and we're going to meet soon.
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What do you meet we're going to meet soon?
 
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Go with it, lap it up, but don't start to 'believe your own publicity' too much as it were. As usual, screen for LSE/BPD/general craziness but if it aint broke, don't fix it!

Also, have some confidence. Maybe developing your DJ skills is paying off and you are becoming the guy that women want!
 
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DJDamage said:
I am always on guard when a woman praises me too much because I know that something is up and its just a matter of time before I find out the real reason.
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I'm on guard myself. She said herself she's afraid of commitment but I'm not planning anything long term with her myself so I'm not bothered by that.

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What do you meet we're going to meet soon?
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This weekend. We swapped numbers last night. I think she wanted to swap numbers sunday night but I made her wait! I have a date lined up for friday and want to see if thats still on.


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Maybe developing your DJ skills is paying off and you are becoming the guy that women want
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Yeah big time. I'm getting a better understanding of what attracts women so all the time and effort is starting to pay off. I just look at my behaviour last year and find theres a big difference now. If I can do it theres hope for us all..

Actually I've another girl thats praising me and giving me compliments too! They both were impressed that I don't want to just talk about sex! The funny thing is I then started talking about it with the other girl and she was telling me the things she liked! lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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